Oh, There's an Empty Place in My Bones

I feel like I’ve put too much pressure on myself to enjoy fall this year, and I might be mentally and physically draining myself in the process. Usually, I need time to focus on myself. Leaving the house on a weekend can be stressful, and venturing out both days is exhausting. When I go out, I can only manage to be away for about 5 to 6 hours - girl, I cannot handle all-day activities. So, during the spooky season, I find myself battling internal conflicts. One part of me wants to go outside and experience the atmosphere and fun activities, while the other wants to stay home, read, write, or lazily watch a movie or show. I’m literally fighting real demons during the Halloween season. LOL.

Sleepy Hollow!

I finally visited Sleepy Hollow for the spooky season! Although I had been to the Tarrytown-Sleepy Hollow area while attending college in Westchester, I never thought much of it until it became a popular Halloween destination. My curiosity grew as I fell into the Instagram trap, as usual. There didn’t seem to be much to do, but escaping the concrete jungle to enjoy the fresh air and colorful fall foliage was enough to draw me there, even if just for a few hours.

Fall Festival 🎃

I recently attended the Fall Festival at Waterdrinker on Long Island to satisfy my craving for a pumpkin patch experience. I want to explore new places, but it's challenging since I don't drive, and many farms in the tri-state area are far away. The convenient location of the Waterdrinker farm allows me to easily hop on an LIRR train and take an Uber to get there.

Cityside Pumpkin Patch 🎃

During a weekend in October, I decided to check out the Cityside Pumpkin Patch in Long Island City. I had seen this place advertised on my Instagram for a while, so I wanted to see if it lived up to the hype. The Summer Club, known for hosting seasonal pool parties on the rooftop of the Ravel Hotel, had been transformed into a full-fledged pumpkin patch featuring locally sourced pumpkins from upstate New York. This unique Halloween-themed rooftop experience offered a variety of activities, such as pumpkin smashing, scarecrow archery, and a pool filled with pumpkins. Additionally, they served fall-themed cocktails and treats, adding to the festive atmosphere.

Autumn in New York 🍁